Ten Internet Pitfalls for
Chubs and Chasers
It's a wild web out there. While there are millions of guys, thousands of sites,
and an infinite amount of things to do, there are also dangers out there. There
are common traps which us chubs and chasers can fall into pretty easily. None of
them are very serious, but they can all impact your life. So how do we avoid
these traps? Here are a list of ten internet pitfalls that can turn your
internet cruising ugly!
How Out in the Chub Community Do
You Want To Be?
You can be totally out in the chub community. You can ignore
it completely. As a chub or a chaser, people might expect
that you’ll be a huge part of the chub and bear clubs, the
nights out, the scene in general. But not all of us want
that. There are pros and cons to every situation when you
are dealing with immersing yourself in a new community. Not
all facets of life within the chub and bear community are
pleasant. Let’s have a look at some of the good, and some of
the bad, at integrating yourself into the chub community at
various levels.
The Horniest Chasers Ever - Part
II
Want to hear about more chasers whose antics put yours to
shame? Those that make your chasing look amateur? Here are
four more stories about chasers who can’t stop themselves
from throwing their bodies at the nearest breathing hot big
man, no matter what the situation. They’re not quite
cautionary tales, and not quite tales of horror. We like
these guys and respect their determination to get what they
want, even if we don’t always approve of their
methodology!
The Horniest Chasers Ever - Part I
Think that you know some horny chasers? Or do you think that
you’re one of the horniest chasers around? We’ve got news
for you. We know some horny chasers. The chasers and chubs
we know have had some very horny chasers who go to some
extraordinary lengths to get their chubs. For whatever
reason, there are some chasers out there who really like to
go after the men they’re interested in. They don’t just
flirt, they go out of their way to make it known that
they’re available and ready. Meet four men that really put
the chase in chaser!
Movers, Construction, and
Truckers: Hot Chub Jobs
Hot chubs are even hotter when they're in certain jobs.
These roles have been established as "chub jobs" through our
collective memory, comic books, movies, and every other pop
culture medium. There are just many jobs out there that we
just picture a fat guy doing. So what are some of the hot
chub jobs out there? And is it the reality of the job as hot
as the fantasy?
Hot Weather and Other Chub
Hazards
So what can go wrong on a date with a hot chub? What are
the hazards that life can throw at you when you are just
trying to take an attractive big man out on the town? So
what should you look out for? What are the hazards that
can ruin an incredible date with a chub? Here are the
top ten things to look out for when you are going on
that all-important first date!
Eight Common Image Problems for
Chasers
Being a chub is hard. You’re out there. Who you are, as a
large gay man, is visible to anyone. But things aren’t
always so easy for the men who love them, too. Being a
chaser can sometimes be emotionally draining. Even if it
isn’t something by which you define yourself, in the act of
preferring chubby guys, you are putting yourself into this
group. And, like any group out there, you have to deal with
the baggage and preconceptions forced on you.
Chubs With Big Cocks: Breaking the
Stereotype
If there’s one omnipresent myth about big men, it’s that
they have small cocks. It’s not true. Cock size is as evenly
distributed among chubs as it is among thinner guys. Myths
about cock size with big men probably date back to showering
with big men who have large public mounds; the cock can
retreat completely inside when it gets cold, instead of
having the vestigial stub that smaller guys would have
hanging out. But that doesn’t mean that the cock is small,
it just means that it’s got some padding around the sides.
Now, with some examples of some nicely endowed men of Bulk
Male, let’s look at the myths about big men and their dicks!
Ten Secrets That Only Big Men Know
As a big guy, there are things that you learn spending enough time out in the
world, and in the chub chaser community. These might seem obvious to us chubs,
but to chasers, they might still be a mystery. Sometimes it’s better off that
way. But here at Bulk Male, we took it upon ourselves to enlighten our chaser
fans with ten secrets that only a big man knows.
The Dangers of Overchasing
Can you be too much of a chaser? As great as it is to
be into chubby men, to enjoy meeting chubby men, to talk to
chubby men online, to fuck chubby men and jack off to chub
porn, there comes a point where you could be heading into
obsession territory. What are some of the signs and dangers
of overchasing?
The Do's and Don'ts of Showing Off
Your Belly
Be proud of being a big guy. Enjoy your body. Realize that
others enjoy it too. If you are just getting used to the
attention that your body can get as a big guy, you might
have some questions on what exactly is erotic to a chaser.
What sort of behavior is appropriate? When should you show
off your belly when you go out, and how?
Do You Need a Scene?
There’s so many scenes out there: bear, chub, leather, BDSM,
chub4chub are ones that come to mind instantly when you
think about what directly affects us as big men and chasers.
But do you need to have a scene? Can you live without them?
What are they good for?
What Attracts You to Big Men?
It’s something that big men wonder. Chasers might not be
aware of the reasons themselves. There’s many reasons why a
guy is attracted to chubs – some physical, some
psychological. It’s not something that’s easy to explain to
those who just don’t “get it”. Face it, big men are hot. But
here are some reasons why!
What Type of Chaser are You?
Previously, we’ve looked at what kind of big men are out
there – based on the physical and typical. But what about
us? There’s plenty of different types of chasers out there,
whether in our motivation to be chasers, our personalities,
and our builds. Not all chasers are the same, that’s for
sure. Some come to the same point from completely different
angles. Some are submissive. Some are dominant. Some are
just in it for the sex, while others are hopeless romantics.
Have a look at these frequently seen chaser combinations,
and figure out which one is the most like you!
Seven Things We Love on a Chub
Everyone has their fetish. And everyone’s fetish is
unique. But even with that realm of choice out there,
there’s some things which just look great on a big guy,
no matter which chaser is looking. Whether it’s skin
tight, offers easy access, or just completes a look,
these items make chasers hard. These are seven items
that a chub can wear that will make a chaser cream in
his pants!
What Kind of Chub Do You Love?
Part II
Last time here at Bulk Male, we checked out the different
body shapes and sizes of big guys for chasers. Now let’s
have a look at the different types of big men there are –
and we’re not talking about physical types, per se, but more
what role or ideal they fit into. Whether you’re into the
masculine ruggedness of a blue-collar big bear type, or the
suave sophistication of a GQ-styled big man, we’ve got a
comprehensive list of the archetypal big men. Check it out!
What Kind of Chub Do You Love?
Part I
Oh, subgenres of subgenres. Yeah, it’s not enough that we chasers love a small
proportion of the gay community, but many of us only like certain types within
that little slice. We’ve said it before: chasers can be picky. But there’s
nothing wrong with being picky. Gay men are picky. Heck, men in general are
picky. So what kind of chubs do you like? After first realizing that you liked
big men, did you spend your time going on dates with different types, and
finally settle in on what really turned your crank? Or did you know it from the
start? Maybe you’re an equal-opportunity chaser who likes big men of all shapes
and sizes.
Chasing a Good Self-Image
Perhaps you’ve noticed that chubby chasers are
competitive with each other. It’s not just your
imagination. Guys who are into big guys do tend to get
competitive. And it’s not because it’s a game to him –
most of that competitiveness comes from insecurity. When
his choice in men is ruled so much by how they look, how
he look has got to be on his mind too.
Expose Yourself: How to Get that
Great Shot
Having a nice looking picture of yourself, one that flatters
and makes you look your hottest can be a great way of
meeting new people, getting more hookups, or just receiving
a lot of flattering enotes. It also shows that you have good
self-esteem, and like to tease. Having taken hundreds of
pictures of big men, I can tell you that there’s some
definite tricks that you can use to get yourself looking
great.
Ten Myths About Big Men
When you’re big and gay, people tell you a lot of stupid things. "You’re too fat
to be gay," for instance. The things that go through their heads about big men
have got to be even stupider. We’ve heard them all. Here at Bulk Male, we’d like
to go on record countering every one of the stupid generalizations that others,
straight or gay, make about the gay chub community.
Bulkmale Quiz: How Much of a
Chaser Are You?
Ever wonder how much your love of big men compares with
other chasers? Are you quietly interested, or chub obsessed?
Take this quick quiz to find out!
Strangers: Fucks You Haven't Met?
Chubby chasing men tend to share a very common trait:
when they see a hot big man, no matter where he is, they
can’t stop staring. Sure, when other gay men see a hot
guy, they have to turn and look, but for chubby chasers,
it’s more than a look. They can’t speak. They have to
ogle, checking this guy out from head to toe, looking
for a wedding rings, signs of gayness, and some idea
where this guy is going. As a chubby chaser, it’s a real
chore to have to turn away from a really hot guy and get
back to a conversation.
To Catch a Chub
Are you a chaser who is tired of chasing? Want to get more
than just a one-night stand, but are having problems finding
interested takers? No, all the good ones aren’t taken.
There’s lots of big men out there looking for a cute chaser
of their own. Let’s have a look at ten steps which can help
you land that big catch!
What Kind of Chub Are You Into?
A big man isn’t just one shape or size. Big men come in all flavors, depending
on their bone structure, muscle mass, skin. Each changes the way their body
holds extra weight, and can make two men at the same height and weight look
completely different. So, ask yourself, what kind of chub are you into?
Less is More
Too many men feel shortchanged by a lack of endowment. So,
you might not be packing a 10" python in there, but, dammit,
your cock still gets hard and shoots with the best! What you
might not know is that there are plenty of men, big and
small, who love a smaller dick! Here’s some great reasons
why having a small cock can be a benefit!
For Chubs Only
Sure, there’s a lot of good reasons to be a chaser. Hot
bears. Big young smooth chubs. Abraham Benrubi. But have you
taken advantage of some of the sex acts that can only be
done with a big man? Here’s an easy guide to the five
positions that we are lucky enough to enjoy!
Attraction
Like it or not, it's a world of appearances. And we've got a
few suggestions to help you shine above the rest.
Rules
of Rejection
How to deal with one of your deepest fears and overcoming
it.
Substitute for Love
We've got the secret of understanding and controlling your lust for big men.
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